5/18/05
What a smashing good lunch, spent with some one I admire, just the last half hour though. I walk around the block and that's what we did. The weather was great, didn't rain, had a nice breeze. I will probably spend Monday alone, TJ has to work, so it will be just Tatyana and me. So, I will try to make the best of it. I need to get some things resolved with him, and hopefully soon. He gets so cranky with me, I hate to even talk about things, it seems to bring only confrontation. I wish things were like it was back in the day. The difference is a child. He puts "the family" first, and us on hold. I can't do that for the next several years, I'll be crazy by then. There need to be benefits, goodies, rewards. I need to be stimulated in a lot of ways, all ways really. I'm sure everyone can relate with me on that one!
posted by Tanya @ 3:13 PM
5 Comments:
At 3:26 PM,
The one and only Tree said…
Most people will agree that in order to be a good parent, you need to first make sure your are there for your spouse. If your marriage fails, you can't be everything for your child because they will be missing one of the parents. The best way to put a child first is to put the marriage first. Silly but true!
At 6:32 PM,
sir77 said…
I'll have to agree with tree on that one!
At 6:39 PM,
Melissa said…
Do you ever sing to him?
At 8:32 AM,
Tanya said…
Do I ever sing to him? Well, actually I sing to Tatyana, or we sing together watching videos, or listening to the radio. I don't seranade him persay, no.
Can we arrange for you, Teresa, to come over and state the way it should be in a marriage, so he gets the big picture? I've learned that not being true to myself is not going to do Tatyana any favors, because she will see the unhappiness in me, and learn that is acceptable from a man. That can't be good either, and I must be true to myself as I have been told lately, and I am trying to do that. Problem is that I am too forward, I say what is on my mind, rather than choosing words appropriately, easy on the ears, heart and soul, not hurting, condemning or even put tactfully. Any of you who know me know I don't have a problem saying what I really mean, but I can't just blurt things out with Tatyana listening to our conversations as she Always is!
At 11:54 AM,
Melissa said…
Haha, I love you to death, Tanya. A good idea is always treat others the way you want to be treated! The golden rule!
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